Dave goes away

I have been very lucky and I think the total amount of business trips Dave has had are 1 or 2 the whole time we have been married. He never travels for work and I hope it stays that way. He will be gone for only 3 days and I don't know how or why but everything has been crazy. Dave is the snow lover of the family, I don't really care for it. So he left Wed afternoon and Wed nite it started to snow. We got probably around 6 inches, which is a lot around here. It was heavy snow too as it had rained first. So Wed nite I was making dinner and the lights started to flicker. In our old townhouse the lights never went out. With those 2 huge storms at the beginning of the year our lights never went out. We have lost our electricity so much here. The kids thought this was so exciting. I was getting really upset and nervous about it. We gathered flashlights for everyone and had dinner by flashlight. I could see out the back window that the lights across the street were already out. We ate and took baths by flashlight as it was flickering on and off. The kids were so excited to sleep with their flashlights. Finally they fell asleep and at 9 that night the power went off for good. I was so upset. I wasn't ready for bed at 9 and when the electricity is off it seems so eerily quiet. It was not fun. We have a fireplace and I wanted to start a fire but we haven't gotten it inspected and I didn't really want to burn the house down. I was afraid the house was going to get so cold that night. The kids were fine. Ben cuddled up with me in my bed so I had a kid kicking me and a baby kicking me from the inside. It was real fun. Siena was fine in her bed. So finally I find my way to bed around 11. Then at 1 I wake up to a beeping noise. It was our FIOS saying the back up battery had died. I didn't know what it was so I had to wander around the house looking for the beeping noise. Finally at 6 the lights and everything come back on. Then I had to go around and turn off all the lights in the house that were on when the electricity went out. I felt like I had a newborn because I was getting up every couple of hours. It was awful! Finally the kids woke up around 7:30. Everyone had stayed warm. I was so glad the night was over and the electricity was finally on again. I cleaned up the kitchen from last night and for some reason our garbage disposal decided to break. I don't know if there is something in it but it won't turn on and our dishwasher was running water all over the floor. I did not deserve this I was so mad! So Dave gets to come home to a broken garbage disposal and I think the dishwasher was just latched incorrectly. Lots of drama here. So in this new house we have a long driveway and I knew that we should start to shovel it so I wouldn't be stuck home forever if it decided to ice over. I started doing it and got 3 feet done when I felt exhausted. Ben wanted to ride his bike on the snow and had tipped over and Siena couldn't figure out how to build a snowman. So we didn't last too long. Finally I braved going back out. We have inherited a snow blower and thought I would be brave and try it out. I was terrified that I would run over my finger or something and have to go to the ER but it was easy and I did a couple more feet until I was exhausted again. I didn't want to go into labor and be stuck at home with 2 kids and no husband. I went inside and rested and woke up to some friends that came to the rescue. Ben and Michelle came over to rescue me from being housebound for another day. It couldn't have been a better surprise. The Dr. Pepper that came along with it was a big bonus too. Ben plowed the rest of the driveway so now Dave will be able to drive his car up into the garage and I will be able to leave tomorrow! I am so excited about it. I think we are supposed to get a little more snow tonight but I don't think too much that I will have to dig out again. Dave comes home tomorrow and I hope he never has to leave again. I realized I really don't want to run this house on my own and that I really don't like the snow, I don't care how pretty it is. It has taken down 2 of my trees and Siena has been out of school for a whole week.